Peace made Visible…. Isaiah 2:2-4…Swords into Plowshares

Cara Hochhalter, "Muslim Woman, Prayer for Peace"
Cara Hochhalter, “Muslim Woman, Prayer for Peace”
Homily for Community Thanksgiving Service at Mary Lyon Church…Nov. 20, 2012
The Rev. Cara B. Hochhalter, Charlemont, MA

When we were driving here tonight…a beautiful white owl flew by our window and we thought perhaps it was a sign of peace…Good evening…

When we decided to be thankful for peacemaking on this night… we didn’t know then that there would be such violence erupting from Israel and Gaza. I DID know that I would be just coming back from a 2-week study/tour through Israel/Palestine with “the Pilgrims of Ibillin” and I figured I would have at least one story to share….but I did not imagine that I would share about peace out of this global context of bombing and fear… I hear that a truce may be imminent …May it be so!

Here’s a little snapshot of two people…two peacemakers…one Palestinian Arab Christian, the other, a Jewish Israeli…both are women.

Her name is Amal… she is a Palestinian who comes from a long line of generations who have lived on top of one of the highest hills about 7 kilometers from Bethlehem in the West Bank. Her family has deeds of ownership for this 100 acres from the Ottomans, then the British, then the Jordanians, as well as the Israelis, but in 1991 their land was called “state land” and Amal and her brothers were not to farm there….but they are. They continue to grow olive trees, almond trees, fig trees and cactus among many flowers….They invite classes of 80 to 100 students to come for camping sessions to learn about living off the land, how to collect water from the rain and use solar for electricity. They teach non-violence and peace to people who come from all over the world to learn from this family of peace-makers.

Amal told us a story… because their farm is not supposed to exist, there have been boulders placed at the lower part of their hill so they cannot use vehicles to get in or out….but one day she was in a town nearby at the bus stop, she saw a Jewish woman who was going to the settlement that covers the hilltop across from where Amal lives.

Instead of ignoring each other and looking down, Amal, decided to make conversation…and in these few words… she began to form a small bridge…a beginning at making peace! She introduced herself to the other woman who asked where Amal’s home was…she told her that her family lived on top of that mountain.
“Impossible,” said the woman, “No one lives on that mountain. We were told that no one lives there…we are people on land where there are no people…” But Amal assured her that for generations, her family had lived there. She told her about their farm and their efforts at educating young people. Amal handed her her card as they parted.

A few weeks later, Amal received a call from her. She wanted to come and see. And so she did…she was served a beautiful lunch, just as we were served…and they talked at the long table looking out over the expanse of hills, a distant Palestinian village, and Jewish settlements.

Amal told us, “You have to know your neighbor if you are going to love them.”

A few months after this visit, Amal received another call from her Jewish neighbor who asked if she could bring her husband to visit because he didn’t believe her when she told him of the family who lives on the mountain and teaches environmental classes and peace-making. He came… And the bridge between these neighbors is building…But it is very hard. Their farm is called, The Tent of Nations as their goal is to bring many different people from all religions and nationalities…together.

The second story is about a woman that some of you may have already read about…in the book The Lemon Tree, by Sandy Tolan. On a rainy evening we pulled up to the very home in Ramla, near Tel Aviv, where the Palestinian family had had to flee and the Jewish family moved in after 1948. In this true story, the Jewish daughter, Dalia Landau, becomes friends with Bashir of the Palestinian family and through their life-long communications, they decide that their home should be used for a preschool for children.
It is now called “The Open House.”…What a privilege it was to sit on little preschool chairs in a circle with Dalia, now a grown woman with reddish hair and a kind smile …The house is not just a place where Muslim and Christian children come to play, but many programs that bring people together are sponsored from this once contested home, summer camps for Jewish and Palestinian youth who seek the creative space that is in the middle between them…women of all faiths work on projects together…

Dalia said it isn’t easy…but she says that “not knowing the other, is a tragedy.”

When I sat listening to her…just a week ago…she told us about something that was going to happen on November 20… today! In light of the turmoil…I can only hope they were able to continue with this program…Today they were to celebrate a Day for Prayer and Action for the rights of children!… How poignant this is as the news images we have seen coming from this same region are pictures of injured children…From “The Open House” they are going to teach about the rights for education and safety and non-violence….The staff were to go into Hebrew and Palestinian Schools …and make stories or plays that demonstrate these rights…they were also to stress the power of prayer from all religions. Today… they were to bring Jewish and Palestinian volunteers into a Bedouin school…and the children would see an example of peace-making in action.

Dalia said that HOPE is a spiritual quality…and I hope and pray that these bridges of peacemaking continue and continue and continue…I give great thanks tonight…for the people whom I met in Israel/Palestine and the people I know right here among you…who dare to reach across to the “other” ….and in that space, in that reach…I believe something of the Holy, enters in…and peace is made visible!

Shalom, Salaam, Peace…Amen

David Fainsilber’s Challenge – He Did it!!

Fainsilber_begin_cutting_dredsOctober 28 update:  He did it!  Introducing David’s new look:

And as of the Dreads-cutting Day, David has raised $3,126 for interfaith education through the Mar Elias Educational Institutions in Ibillin.  Thank you, David!

October 24, 2012:  A blog post from David Fainsilber:

In just four days, gathering with my family in Montreal on Sunday, I will cut off my 13-year signature dreadlocks.  As you can imagine, this is going to be a big transition!

Thirteen years ago, at the age of 19, I was attending a youth group overnight, when three very cute young women sat me down and said, “We are gonna make your hair into dreadlocks!”  I agreed.  Who am I am to turn down such a request?

As the first years of growing these dreads passed, I learned perseverance.  It’s not easy growing dreads with thin, straight hair.  Most people thought I should just give up.  I took that as a challenge to keep on trying.  But as my dreads started to fully form, even my mom had to agree that she liked them (although they never quite caught on for my grandmother).

Not long after, I began wearing a kippah/yarmulka too.  The combination of dreads and kippah has been an intentional act of bringing awareness:

First, raising my own consciousness around complex identities, giving myself permission to be myself, even if that meant being a bit outside of the mold.

Second, bringing awareness to others of what it takes to cross boundaries, and finding contact with others where we may never have connected otherwise.

For years now, I have been getting ‘the nod’ from the dreadlocked black Caribbeans walking down the street, who say to me, “Nice dreads maaan.”  Or there was the heated debate with the 70-year-old black woman about why white people absolutely can’t have dreads.  After a grueling hour of learning about each other, we ended with a hug. Where does my community end and yours begin?

Or that moment a year ago in Haifa on the human rights walk where someone turned to me, patting me on the kippah, saying: “We need more of your kind [aka religious Jews] here at this march.  Good for you.”  Can we hold two competing/complementary identities, modern and traditional?

I am, 13 years later, that same old David.  But by way of countless stories like these, I have grown with these dreads – found  my voice, matured, re-thought assumptions, and crossed boundaries I did not know existed.

Just like with my triathlon two months ago, while I pursue my own personal transformations, I seek to make a larger impact. While I am proud of my own resiliency and consciousness-raising, these efforts are a small matter compared to what it will take to make peace between Israel and Palestine.

I am cutting my dreads, just as I competed in my triathlon, to raise money for two organizations working for peace in the Middle East. Like growing my dreads has helped me and others around me confront assumptions about identity, social groups and belonging, so too do these programs Pilgrims of Ibillin, and Peace it Together. In the words of one participant from Peace It Together’s program: “I definitely had to re-think some assumptions I walked into the program with, and they were assumptions I didn’t even realize I really had.”

I want our youth to know that they are supported when they cross boundaries towards peace and non-violence.

As I prepare to cut my dreads, I want to thank all of you for reading these emails and my blog, writing me letters of support. So far we have raised  $7000 for the cause!!!  (Note:  $2600+ so far for Pilgrims of Ibillin. Watch comments below for updates on this amount.)

Can we reach $10,000 before this is over?  “CUT” one of my dreads by supporting one of these amazing programs:

Pilgrims of Ibillin (recommended for Americans)
http://bos.etapestry.com/fundraiser/PilgrimsofIbillin/cuttingthedreds_runningtherace-forpeace/aboutEvent.do

Peace it Together (recommended for Canadians)
peaceittogether.com/get-involved/david-campaign

Be prepared to see pictures next week of a new look for me!

L’Shalom, towards peace,

David

Join Bob Sawyer for a Living Stones Pilgrimage – Jan/Feb 2013

Living Stones Pilgrimage Opportunity — Travel with a Purpose

January 29—February 11, 2013
Led by Rev. Bob Sawyer & George Shalabi ~ pilgrims@triad.rr.com or 336-499-5310

The winter Pilgrims of Ibillin Living Stones Pilgrimage still has openings, but the registration deadline is around the corner. Join us for a tour that’s more than a tourist experience of Israel/Palestine. Check our website for full brochure and registration form.

Cost: $1600 program fee to Pilgrims of Ibillin; pay airfare separately to our travel agent for the New York-Tel Aviv round trip, plus the cost of your connecting flight from wherever you live to New York.

Registration deadline—October 15, 2012. (We have a few days wiggle room on this deadline, but do call today for more information.)

Click here for the full pdf brochure and registration form.

More information:  call or email Bob Sawyer, 336-499-5310 or mailto:pilgrims@triad.rr.com.